IF YOU MET SOMEONE ON NAP WOULD YOU DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT?

[priestessashe]

johnmarlon wrote: I can kind of understand the concept of deleting an account out out of respect for a partner, although I can't entirely wrap my mind around it.

In all reality it would be easier to test their trust if they still have their account here.




Completely agree. I would hope that my partner trusts me. Though, yes, maybe I would consider deleting my account if they asked me too, but it seems like a request stemming from insecurity more than anything else. Why not share in the fun, for this is not JUST a personals site. It could also be considered a networking site, though people do use it mostly for the purpose of finding a partner. Either way, it's a hard call to make. I think it depends on the relationship and the people, you know?

[straighteyes (deleted)]

I have to agree, if a person wants to cheat you, there will always be a way.Deleting an account might not be the solution, changing it shows respect to our partner. Finding and having friends is important even when you found someone thats fits. Showing your friends on friends list is respect to our partner, keeping them secret a slap into the face. And when you start to feel uncomfortable be alarmed!! I learned my lessons very well on here.. all the evil stuff going on on chat might be bitter but personally you grow with it. All you can do treat other people as you wanted to be treated. To me this is the only way to get out of such situations when you are not sure if a person is trustworthy..

straighteyes

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`I agree. Thanks.

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`Very well put, straighteyes. I like the way you put it.

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`I wouldn't blame people one way or the other for whatever they decide to do. I can really understand why one would choose to do either, I guess.

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`I like what johnmarlon had to post....to paraphrase..it would be a test of their trust. How true. I feel as if it is a huge test of trust. One way or the other, I think one should trust their feelings as to whether they think the other may be 'hooking up' with other males/females.

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`I don't believe anyone has to be tested to show their love. What is the difference here on internet or out in real world?
You meet someone in real world do you ask them to not to talk to their friends of the opposite sex?Do you give them blinders so they can't side glance at others? I think not!!

If they are hooking up with others on internet they would be doing the same thing in real world.

I would never ask anyone to delete their account that is their choice.
Trust is part of love. If you don't trust I guess you really are not in love. Jealousy will kill any love eventually..

"Trust lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without trust."
M.K.Soni


N.W.A.A.

[nightchant (deleted)]

`trust & love, cyberworld or real world. there's no difference. we either trust & respect the one we share our heart with. if not then this brings on hositility & jealousy which is the core of an ugly relationship. there will always be someone in the fold that will try their best to interced & kill the relationship with ugliness. i know, it has happen to me in both worlds. but if you have truth in your being then you have trust & respect in your partner to do the right thing & visa versa. it's all in how you see yourself in a realationship good & bad. it takes two to tangle but it takes two to entangle with the truth.

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`You are absolutely right on Nightchant. People need to close their ears to others that want to start trouble in your relationship , because if these things are going on eventually it will come out.
Some women on internet and in the real world that see another with a man will go out of their way to cause trouble, and what is sad is that woman will listen and let those thoughts enter her mind.


That is one thing I have never done was come between a woman and her man or carry rumors to her..

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`As johnmarlon stated..."In all reality it would be easier to test their trust if they still have their account here". I can see his point and respect it.
As for expecting someone to put on blinders or not talk to friends of the opposite ---....if your "friends" are truly friends then they will not try to influence you to cheat. Blinders...I would not expect them to wear blinders. Beauty is in the world, it is everywhere we look, so why not appreciate?
I do agree that jealousy will kill any love. But, hurt will kill love also.
I like the quote that huggeroftrees shared..." Trust lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without trust." M.K.Soni
I believe that trust, truth and faithfulness go hand in hand. Of course, there are many more components that involve this crazy world of love.

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`You all have nice things on say on this..but isn't it(this subject) exhausting as well?

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rebelyell08 wrote: `You all have nice things on say on this..but isn't it exhausting as well?

yes rather be laughing



Buddha Quote

You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.

N.W.A.A.

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`I just get exhausted with (sorry for the term, but, evil) and the ripple effect it causes people in as what rosesandwine2 says "hurt"..especially when we have unwittingly participated. And the guilt thereafter. Thats what gets me..being so gullible. (And I am speaking for none but myself here).

my only "advise" would be here is..sure tell others you are not available. But its probably not good to say with who..no matter how persuasive they may be.

[blackfootedgirl]

`It is kind of like a dog chasing it's tail, as soon as you think you figured out, there is another thought or insight to consider.

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`Rebelyell08, I have been way to gullible too many times and got "suckered" in. Everytime, I said that I would not let it happen again; but, it did. They just used different techniques to draw me in.
About the comment of telling others that you are not available...will these people understand that you are "not available" and respect that you have met someone? Or will they try to "worm" their way in to see if they could replace you?
Sometimes I wonder, why even try?